So after a week or so I Then decided that I’m developing my own social networking strategy ..where I intend to blog, blag and basically share in a more productive and enriching way with my creative Chi, and if others refuse to let the lamb lie down…then I must, bit like regeneration Dr Who style.
Being the same person having the same view, but looking at things on other spectrums..or on the other end of the string. (Towards the left) and a self moderating enigma.
I still moderate and contribute on Deaf4life, I havn’t been kicked out… or told I need to change tact or approach, along with the other fellow we do a damn good job, or I dare say its owner would have the last word, in fact he does.
What Next?
Mr Sutton the CEO of http://www.deaf4life.co.uk will soon make a decision on the way forward to attract a wider audience of those in Deafidom, and I’m sure that he will make a good decision, based on the positive feedback from the “future” post.
Its a great forum with some very interesting members who are both sociable and classification free with regard to friendship, support and understanding.
There’s a section on joining that asks the question “Hearing Status” over the last week I’ve changed mine daily… Hearing, Hard of Hearing, Deafened and Deaf..the only one I’ve not done is “No Comment” as its the odd one out…as I’ve been all of the above and I reserve the right to comment. Yet nobody else has mentioned it, if they’ve noticed…it doesn’t matter!
My culture hasn’t changed, as most cultures seldom do but Its been adapted to suit myself for my own happiness and hopefully it will make me more sociable, and keep me on the thought that we all belong…under Deafidom.

deafmuse
July 6, 2011
Welcome to the real world
(But be careful they can bite back now).
gargly
July 7, 2011
Lol sometimes, we have to bite back but its when its more than can be chewed it can over whelm..Its good to take a back seat and look over whats done…reflect, and then move on.
It takes guts sometimes to agree that errors can be made and it maketh the man, to prevent further damage..and continue.
Thank you sir, now get back in your cage ;-P lol
Irbuthnot of Taramasalata
July 6, 2011
I find that I sometimes need a break from online so I sometimes stay offline for a few days. It’s almost like a wave of depression sweeps over me and I often think life might be more fun without the social networking. I used to ‘disappear’ for a week or so back in the early days of Nos Chat and hardly anyone noticed. I find the same happening in real life as well; I’ve spoken to two people on Facebook who I was friendly with at school but although I can remember them they don’t remember me. And it sometimes makes me wonder if I need to change or should I just put it down to having a good memory that they haven’t.
gargly
July 7, 2011
Yeah, it can get too much…I have a break too now and again, getting into debates and other issues can drain your brain.
I essentially remain to be the same Gargly you know, but as you know its good to have a change especially as we learn and become more experienced. I’ve made mistakes like we all do as I’ve gone along…but hopefully I’ve learned something from it.
This blog is no way serious, its just a few thoughts I have..and people can take what they want from it…and add something too.
We are fortunate that we can have a break for a while then catch up when we return, thats the sign of a good friendship..Thank you for your friendship and contributions over the years and the comments you make on this blog o’mine.